Hi Kristin & Jeremy, We wish that we had committed to memory and learned by heart to work on our own flaws and focus on our partner?s feelings. We realized and are still appreciating that to live happily in a marriage it is up to the most conscious person to take the lead in compromise and negotiation. One of you needs to surrender to be happy over being right- and you know who you are. We wish we were told to trust in honesty and truth- even when it feels- if truth be told ? extremely uncomfortable. Facing the truth and being honest as best you can out of love for one another really results in contentment and joy in a relationship. Also we wish that we knew that marriage is not meeting each other half way it?s about going a full 100% to come together. And last but not least make each other laugh and have fun even in bed. May your relationship bring joy, happiness, laughter and satisfaction. ~ Bhavani & Richard Fixing A Hole ?And it really doesn't matter if I'm wrong I'm right Where I belong I'm right Where I belong. See the people standing there who Disagree and never win? ~ Beatles{lyrics} The attachment: Photo of Bhavani and Richard was taken when we were first dating. Bhavani (Margaret) age 16 and Richard(Dick) age 19. March 7, 1962. The other portrayal is also us as a married couple most recently. We will be married 45 years this year!!! For The Newlyweds On our way snorkling-our first activity as an engaged couple! >From their wedding registry website ~ A Gift For Jeremy & Kristin From All Of Us ~ Dear Family and Friends, As you know Jeremy and Kristin will be marrying on June 20, 2009 - and we thought it would be great to gift them with a sort of combination photo album/journal entry from all of us married folks. As such please send (via postal mail or email) a picture of you as a married couple, along with some words of wisdom. Each page will contain an individual couple's photo along with its corresponding message. ~For the message, just ask yourselves what you wish you had known at the onset of marriage. Please send no later than ...Saturday, 2/28/09... 3 wks from today. 4 William Drive - Pelham, 03076 603-635-3053 http://profiles.yahoo.com/ajamlavigne ~THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU~ Our Love and Gratitude, Anne Marie & Artie PS Also if you notice any important address missing from above, please let us know asap. And if you should know the address ...* do send it along *...