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Re: Hikikomori: Why are so many Japanese men refusing to leave their rooms?
- To: Flora <http://profiles.yahoo.com/flora>, Flora E <http://www.state.vt.us/~Flora.>, Flora E <http://www.gmail.com/~flora>, Bhavani <http://www.myself.com/~Bhavani>, Bhavani <http://www.juno.com/~bhavaniowl>, Bhavani <http://www.gmail.com/~bhavaniowl>
- Subject: Re: Hikikomori: Why are so many Japanese men refusing to leave their rooms?
- From: Robert <http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert>
- Date: Mon, 08 Jul 2013 06:31:05 -0700
- Cc: Noelle <http://dummy.us.eu.org/noelleg>
- Keywords: our-San-Jose-phone-number<
> From: Flora <http://profiles.yahoo.com/flora>
> Date: Sun, 7 Jul 2013 17:54:34 -0700 (PDT)
>
> No, I didn't hear this.Very thought provoking. I think that because of the
> internet, it will happen more and more.
According to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori , it was identified
before the internet. But, most of the literature is after the arrival of
the internet; so, it's hard to tell.
> In regards to the story, I think that Americans are a lot more individualist
> than in Japan. We are more about pleasing ourselves than our families, but this
> disconnection can still occur. We have our cars and the internet. I can drive
> to work and drive home, but never have any personal interaction besides my
> family and workmates. I can live a very isolated life. I know that people in
> our town aren't as dependent on each other compared to a time when people
> around here farmed for their existence.
>
> I see a lot of disconnection in society. Our town's Rally Day (kind of like Old
> Home Day) will no longer exist because no one wants to organize the event. I
> guess nobody feels that it's that important to celebrate the community of our
> town. It's sad, but I don't feel that I would be capable of organizing a town
> wide event like that. We have attended every year since we moved here in 2006
> and the attendance appears to have dropped off. Now this - no more Rally Day.
> Our town as a community doesn't seem that important.
Well, I do have to say that someone should at least rename the holiday.
"Rally" sounds like a football game or a war or something.
> There may be triggers for becoming withdrawn, but our society design can
> contribute to the avoidance of social contact. We have our cars, our internet,
> we have few sidewalks and porches, and we don't rely on our neighbors for our
> welfare.
>
> I usually listen to about 20 minutes of the World Update on the BBC in the
> morning before I go to work. The BBC is broadcast on our local NPR station
> during the night hours, until 6am. There were a lot of programming changes on
> Vermont Public Radio (VPR). The BBC remains, though. Unfortunately, they
> eliminated my favorite program Living on Earth. When I complained, I was told
> that I could listen to it online. It's just not the same.
I think there would be a big uproar if our station tried to eliminate
Living on Earth here.
> Thank you for sharing this story. I couldn't figure out how to listen to the
> audio, though.
It just popped up on their podcast. You can pick it up at
http://downloads.bbc.co.uk/podcasts/worldservice/healthc/healthc_20130708-1202a.mp3
Get it quickly, 'tho -- I think they only keep their stories up for 30
days.