> Date: Mon, 26 Aug 2013 15:58:12 -0700 (PDT) > From: Tamara <http://profiles.yahoo.com/t> > > So how are you doing? Have you recovered from the French family influx? > I've booked my trip to Ca for October 18 - 28th and fully expect to make a > quick trip up to the BA for a visit. Low key is fine, it would be fun to do > dinner with Ann and Michele again if they are up for it and available. Do > you have any plans during that timeframe already? Right now I am flexible - > > ________________________________ > From: Noelle <http://dummy.us.eu.org/noelleg> > To: Tamara <http://profiles.yahoo.com/t> > Sent: Monday, August 12, 2013 5:19 PM > Subject: Re: OOPs > > you are so right about this. I feel guilty about them being in the middle > of my mother-daughter conflict which cannot be resolved. And I'm sure my > cousin & aunt have issues around unresolved feelings about my mom and I'm > unable to articulate complex feelings in French. I didn't want to force > Heather to be our bilingual therapist. Maybe Isabelle was afraid to talk > to me about the family she told > Heather more when Robert was driving them. oh well. > > I will talk to Heather about writing them something, she is willing to > help. > > yes, and back then it was rare for people to go back to visit where they > came from. Were your relatives starving in Germany or were they persecuted > for something?