1) She should have an okcupid profile. According to my research, however, the demographics lean young, so that's probably low probability of success. 2) Emy might consider meetup. The beer coop should be very good ('tho, it is generally going to lean on the young side). Some good meetups which should have older men: a) Sales and marketing meetups. Yeah, there are a lot of men in those professions; kinda boring, but true. b) Technical, especially computer hardware, meetups. A number of younger men started out in hardware, which is starting to die. The older guys are still hanging on. c) Science meetups. The telescope one that we did should be good, in theory. Physics ones and chemistry ones should also be good. Hiking ones are probably not so great; wine tasting will probably be hit-or-miss. Some sports meetups might be good, but only as a spectator -- biking meetups will lean young, as will most "active sports" meetups.