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[** ISO-8859-7 charset **] Re: Comment on It¢s the Patriarchy, Stupid (fwd)
- To: robert <http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert>
- Subject: [** ISO-8859-7 charset **] Re: Comment on It¢s the Patriarchy, Stupid (fwd)
- From: Noelle <noelle>
- Date: Wed, 27 Dec 2017 10:31:10 -0800 (PST)
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> Date: Wed, 27 Dec 2017 18:20:47 -0000
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> new moderate wrote, in response to Noelle:
>
> I agree. But there are men who point out that relationship customs and laws
> are stacked against them, that western women are singularly interested in
> their needs to the exclusion of men's needs, and that they need to look out
> for themselves. They are creating a culture that limits contact with women
> and that defines their needs in relation to the changing feminist
> environment that treats them sometimes with contempt. They are opting out of
> that.
>
> Noelle wrote:
>
> It would be good if people didn't throw up their hands and give up. People
> are smart enough and sensitive enough to learn how to communicate. It's been
> a many year process for me to learn how and I am still learning. I have not
> given up and retreated to the internet, or to a cabin in Montana. Maybe you
> can read Robert Bly's writings about men(earlier version MGTOW,sort of, from
> 1980s-90s I think). I do agree with him men should be able to create spaces
> with fellow men and don't have to be with women all the time, and women
> should have their spaces as well. But we can still do things together too!