> From: ", Flora" <http://www.vermont.gov/~Flora.> > Date: Mon, 6 Nov 2017 19:21:40 +0000 > > Do you go to an estate planner to get all this done? I'm not sure who you are addressing, but, yes, Noelle and I are working with an estate planning attorney to create a living trust, an advanced directive, and a will. (The will is a fall-back if the trust has flaws; going through probate is to be avoided if possible.) > Do they help you with the financial planning, too? No. > I'm thinking you want to financially plan. You mean, for retirement? > Do you know > if a deceased person's debts are paid by their living relatives? They usually are -- usually the closest living relative. So, control your spending! :-) > -----Original Message----- > From: Robert [http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert] > Sent: Monday, November 6, 2017 1:43 PM > To: Bhavani <http://www.myself.com/~Bhavani>; Bhavani <http://www.juno.com/~bhavaniowl>; > Bhavani <http://www.gmail.com/~bhavaniowl> > Cc: Richard <http://www.juno.com/~w1few>; http://dummy.us.eu.org/noelleg; , Flora < > http://www.vermont.gov/~Flora.>; Flora E <http://profiles.yahoo.com/Flora>; Flora E > <http://www.gmail.com/~flora>; Chris <http://www.gmail.com/~christopher1>; > Chris <http://www.gmail.com/~drchrisbear>; Chris <http://www.picis.com/~C>; Marnie > <http://www.gmail.com/~369marnie> > > > From: Bhavani <http://www.gmail.com/~bhavaniowl> > > Date: Mon, 6 Nov 2017 11:11:14 -0700 > > > > Richard & I are each otherââ?¬â?¢s POAââ?¬â?¢s. In case of our deathââ?¬â? > > ¢s occurring at > the same time then it should/could be our children. Two > > can be named according > to the law? > > Not sure. In Ca, you can name all the beneficiaries to be the trustees > to the living trust; this is something Noelle and I will likely do. If they > permit such an arrangement in , I urge you to do something similar. > > > So we could ask who wants to be Advanced Directives?? > > > > PS I believe that Robert, Flora, Marnie and Chris know what our wishes are > > or > could look in a form such as the five wishes? > > Likely true, which is why it makes sense to assign multiple people to these > things if possible. This way, everyone is forced to agree upon the action > taken.