RE: living trust, will, and advance directives

[", Flora" <http://www.vermont.gov/~Flora.>]

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From: Noelle [http://dummy.us.eu.org/noelleg] 
Sent: Monday, November 6, 2017 2:45 PM

On Mon, 6 Nov 2017, , Flora wrote:

 >
 > To Robert's last statement... or fight and disagree - that they know what th 
 >  > e  >  person would want if they were able to make the decision 
 > themselves. I've  >  heard a lot of podcasts on how families fall apart 
 > because of this. I actua  > lly  >  like the idea of multiple people. I 
 > would think that this would provide the

this is what the lawyer said in his experience. that way the others don't 
resent the one who is in charge of disposition.

Flora: this makes sense. 

 >  best outcome for all involved. By the way, I think that you should be as  > 
 >   explicit in your advance directive as possible. If you don't want a 
 >  certain  >  person in the room, put that in your advance directive. 
 >
 > Tim and I did both a living will and a will before Nick was born. I haven't  
 > >  looked at them since. 

Probably good idea to update that.

Flora: Yeah, I agree. Thank you.